The Aging Well Firefighter
The Aging Well Firefighter
Rest: "What Was I Thinking?"
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Rest: "What Was I Thinking?"

Why Real Strength Means Knowing When to Back Off

Episode Summary

In this heartfelt episode, Roy opens up about a deeply personal season of loss, stress, and responsibility—and the lessons it taught him about the power of rest. Drawing from his experiences as a firefighter, EMT, fitness coach, and endurance athlete, Roy challenges the “no days off” mentality and explains why rest isn’t a sign of weakness, but a critical part of high performance and long-term health.

This episode is based on Roy’s recent article about rest, which you can read here.


Key Topics Covered

  • Personal Story: Roy shares the emotional journey of his father’s final weeks, the demands of family, work, and professional development, and how he learned to intentionally scale back to protect his health.

  • Rest as a Performance Tool: Why rest is not a guilty pleasure, but a strategic move used by elite athletes and should be embraced by first responders and high-stress professionals.

  • Undulating Periodization: How top athletes plan cycles of hard work and recovery—building strength, endurance, and resilience without burning out.

  • Challenging the Grind Culture: The myth of “no days off” in fire/EMS and fitness, and why true toughness means knowing when to step back.

  • Practical Takeaways:

    • How to build rest into your schedule, even if you’re not a pro.

    • The concept of rest-based training: push hard, then rest as needed.

    • The physiological and mental consequences of ignoring rest.

  • Roy’s Challenge to You:

    1. Schedule a real rest day or lighter day this week.

    2. Share your commitment with a friend, your crew, or on social media for accountability.

    3. Reflect on how you feel before, during, and after your rest day—notice changes in energy, mood, and performance.

  • Invitation to Connect: Roy encourages listeners to share their experiences and join the conversation about training smart, not just hard.


Memorable Quotes

  • “Sometimes the bravest and the smartest thing you can do is rest.”

  • “If the pros are programming rest, why do we treat it like a guilty pleasure?”

  • “You cannot pour from an empty cup.”

  • “Fight wisely and age bravely.”


Call to Action

Take Roy’s three-step challenge this week:

  1. Schedule and protect a real rest day.

  2. Share your commitment for accountability.

  3. Reflect on the impact—and let Roy know how it goes!

Tag Roy on social media or leave a comment to join the conversation about what happens when we rest like the pros.


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